Tension Matters – Easy Tips To Add An Unexpected Touch to Your Looks

Tension Matters – Easy Tips To Add An Unexpected Touch to Your Looks

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Tension is where style gets interesting. It’s the alluring spark that happens when two elements that we don't typically picture together make each other look sharper, cooler and more intentional. When you think tension, think contrast. Playing with opposite colors, juxtaposing different silhouettes or connecting style eras are all surefire approaches to build tension in one's outfits. When you place opposite pieces side by side, each one's character becomes more vivid. Case in point: a crisp blazer looks sharper next to distressed denim. Similarly, a delicate shoe feels even more refined under sculptural pants. Tension elevates looks because it highlights the unique pieces that make up those looks. Now, there are many ways to achieve tension, some more dramatic than others. To add those unexpected touches to everyday outfits, I like to go for small doses of juxtaposition. Here are some easy ways to infuse tension in your work and casual looks: 

Sharp Suiting With Platform Sandals

When it comes to classic corporate officewear, you just can't go wrong with a suit. You may be overdressed depending on the company, but better to be overdressed than underdressed, right? One way that I make a sharp suit look trendier and less uptight is by pairing it with proven off-duty staples such as a bold pair of platform sandals.

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For this work look, I went for a sharp black blazer and dressy black ankle pants, a combination that always delivers. Then to balance out the seriousness of the black suit, I added off-white platform sandals. Platform sandals have been typically associated with casual Summer wear, going-out outfits, or retro style. Pairing those with a modern black suit makes for an unexpected touch for a work day and that's exactly what tension is about.

Baggy Jeans With A Sharp Blazer

Remember this post where I talked about styling baggy jeans for work? If you checked it out, then you know that you can elevate baggy jeans to office status with the right denim wash and the right blazer. I styled a pair of dark-wash baggy jeans with a structured blazer to create casual and business tension. This is a formula that many of us are familiar with and have experimented with, whether it be baggy jeans or distressed jeans. Adding some polished accessories such as a pearl necklace, a leather belt and a structured bag contributes to giving these baggy jeans a more professional allure.

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Dressy Guipure Pants With Casual Pieces

This is another outfit that I featured recently. We tend to associate anything made of guipure lace fabric with occasionwear or evening wear. But guipure pants can be styled casually if you pair them with the right pieces. To create some tension with a dressy and luxe pair of wide-leg guipure pants, just add a casual top and casual accessories.

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For a weekend outfit I wore to brunch and for errands, I went for black guipure pants, a casual sleeveless top, and casual raffia accessories. I also reached for a pair of oversized, sharp sunglasses to really balance the contrast. Tension is about making those unexpected moves that just work and with this outfit, the guipure pants really create chic contrast with the casual vibe.

Aviator Sunglasses With A Sharp Outfit

I find aviator sunnies so cool! Yes, I love my classic oversized square sunnies and my Wayfarer silhouettes but when it comes to adding that cool touch, I turn to aviators. I like to pair them with any looks really, but I especially love them with dressier, more polished outfits because they just add that cool touch. There's no way to botch this move when you want to infuse some tension in your outfits.

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Casual Shorts With A Sharp Blazer

Someone likes their blazers! And we all love casual shorts for Summer, don't we? They're breathable and comfy plus they offer plenty of styling options. To keep completely casual, you could pair them with a simple tank top. But to really bring some snazzy contrast, you could wear your white casual shorts with your sharpest blazer and vest combo. This is another easy formula to balance workwear polish and weekend casual.

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More formulas to build some tension in your looks:

– A feminine dress with masculine shoes

– A casual tee with dressy slacks and dressy pumps

– A flowy skirt with a structured leather jacket

– Graphic printed pants with a layered dressy white shirt (add a tie and sweater to give the look some serious punch!)

Now your turn: how do you build tension in your looks? Or do you prefer to keep a harmonious flow and not mix and match styles? Let's chat below!

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How I Style Guipure Lace Pants For Everyday Life

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Guipure lace is one of those fabrics that feels so luxurious and rich, we tend to save it for special occasions and evening wear. But nothing takes your routine from zero to special faster than a special piece of clothing! When you want to spice up your elevated casual ensembles, try swapping the typical blue jeans for guipure pants. This simple trick will bring so much allure to your daytime feats and casual errand runs! 

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For a casual and classy chic weekend look, I paired black guipure pants with a black one-shoulder fitted top. The asymmetric top balances the dressy pants with a touch of feminine chic. To dial up the casual mood and give the outfit a Summer vibe, opt for raffia accessories such as a large tote, a wide belt, and statement raffia sandals. This combination creates all the good tension we love in a good fit: it's elevated and polished with a dose of hot weather, off-duty ease.

Would you wear guipure pants casually? Let me know in the comments!

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Sharp, Modest, and Elevated Shorts Outfits For Fashionable Moms Over 40

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I've been wearing shorts a lot lately! First because it's been super hot and humid, even here in the Twin Cities, but also because I've found the perfect shorts! When you are taller and on the curvy side, finding a pair that sits right can be a challenge. So I was super excited when I stumbled on this denim pair of shorts and these linen-blend options. They feature a high waist and longer inseam which give them a classic and more modest vibe. And both have belt loops for an adjustable fit and who doesn't love that? 

There are endless ways to style shorts during the Summer, whether you opt for camis, tees, shirts, or even dresses (yes, you can totally layer a shirt dress over shorts)! As a millennial mom and corporate leader in her forties, I tend to stick to outfits that are more elevated and modest. My formula for styling shorts – especially white shorts and denim shorts which already scream Summer casual – is to pair them with more structured pieces such as a blazer or an oversized oxford shirt. Here are some ways that I have styled shorts this Summer:

White Shorts With A Blazer and Vest Combo

White shorts are a classic Summer staple. Pair them with any tops and they instantly give that warm-weather, nautical vibe. Because white shorts can be so casual, I wore them with a structured navy blue blazer over a matching vest for an elevated casual vibe. This look works because the longline blazer balances the shorts with a touch of corporate polish and also because blue and white make a crisp Summer color palette. I finished the look with a brown leather tote and color-blocked loafers for a modern and laid-back allure.

Check out the outfit reel on Instagram.

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White Shorts With An Oversized Shirt

Independence Day inspired the colors in this look! I wanted something colorful yet classic with a bit of an Americana vibe so I paired my white linen shorts with a red oversized striped shirt. I added a blue silk scarf and a red structured leather tote to play up the flag's colors and also to elevate the outfit. This is another one that gives nautical vibes and is perfect for all kinds of Summer feats, including coffee runs, errands, picnics and brunch too. A modest shorts outfit not only keeps you cool and comfy, it also delivers the versatility busy women need to effortlessly go about their weekends.

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Denim Jorts With A Layered Shirt

Just because it's Summer doesn't mean you can't layer your outfits! The trick to doing it without feeling like you're overheating is to go for natural, breathable fabrics. I started this outfit with a denim pair of jorts. These are so good! The length is perfect, the high waist sits just right, and it's a structured denim meaning it will retain its shape. For a laid-back yet intentional look, I added a long linen shirt layered with a cropped blazer. Mixing lengths is a surefire way to achieve elegant balance with a look and especially with shorts. Bold accessories such as a chunky beaded necklace, a large leather tote and chunky loafers add edge while maintaining the relaxed allure.

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These outfits just scratch the surface of how you can elevate shorts in the Summer, especially for women over 40. Which one gets your vote? And what ideas do you have about sharp shorts styling? 

what else piques your interest?